Anette Steltzer, Attorney and Mediator
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Prenuptial Agreement

Learn how to effectively protect yourself against the consequences of a divorce.

You know that a prenuptial agreement makes sense. We’ll help you find the right solution for you without any red tape: clear and legally sound solutions that protect you, and fair agreements that prevent disputes.

100% free and non-binding.

Your Situation

These are the typical topics

Whether you’re an expat or not

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Children & Career

Agree on compensation for caregiving work right in the prenuptial agreement, instead of arguing about it for years later on. We’ll work through this with you and suggest suitable solutions.

02

Protecting the Business

The business shouldn’t fail just because the relationship ends. As a source of income, it can then serve both of you better. We know what can be arranged.

03

Real Estate & Inheritance

Establishing clear rules in the prenuptial agreement regarding assets and inheritances provides security and avoids disputes and high costs. We ensure legal certainty.

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About Us

Over 20 years of experience
as divorce attorneys and mediators

As long-time partners, spouses, and parents, we know the ups and downs of married life — both professionally and personally.

Anette Steltzer

Anette Steltzer

Attorney and Mediator for Prenuptial Agreements

Daniel Steltzer

Daniel Steltzer, LL.M.

Attorney and Mediator for Prenuptial Agreements

200+

prenuptial agreements drafted

20+

years of legal practice

100%

transparency on costs

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Planning Ahead

Why getting the right advice matters

Don’t waste any more time with Claude or ChatGPT trying to understand questionable information about…

  • the matrimonial property regime,
  • issues regarding retirement planning in the event of divorce, and
  • the rules governing spousal support

…and tinkering with contract drafts based on dangerous half-knowledge.

“With us, you’ll soon know more than most lawyers about the law regarding marriage, separation, and divorce — effortlessly.”

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Free Consultation

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FAQ

Frequently Asked Questions

With our analysis, you'll receive our legal assessment of the risks you face in the event of a separation or divorce and how you can protect yourself with a prenuptial agreement.

No. Our analysis is completely free of charge, and we simply inform you about which aspects of your life you might want to protect with a prenuptial agreement.

Whether you then wish to proceed with us is entirely up to you. We prioritize client satisfaction and never pressure anyone into taking steps they don't want to take.

We naturally see the opportunity to provide you with a free analysis as a chance to convince you of our expertise, so that you'll want to continue working with us to draft your legally sound prenuptial agreement.

We're passionate about taking our consulting services to the next level. This includes offering you only what you truly need. That's why you'll always receive a customized quote if you decide to hire us for your prenuptial agreement.

However, the exact cost depends on the specific case and how complex your prenuptial agreement will be.

Only after you have expressly consented. We guarantee you won't receive any invoices that will take you by surprise.

Free Analysis

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Book your free personal analysis now — we'll walk you through everything and show you exactly how a prenuptial agreement can protect you.

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An Overview

Prenuptial Agreement Consultation

You want prenuptial agreement advice. You no longer ask yourself the question, "Prenuptial agreement — yes or no?" You know that a prenuptial agreement makes sense. But how do you get the right advice, and what is the ideal process?

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Without a certain degree of fairness, a prenuptial agreement can quickly become wholly or partially invalid."

Prenuptial Agreement Advice from a Notary

Advice on a prenuptial agreement can be provided by a notary. A prenuptial agreement must be notarized. So why not go straight to the notary? After all, they also provide advice.

It is true that notaries provide impartial advice. In other words, they do not advise individual spouses in a biased manner. The notary is obligated to remain neutral. If they realize that the spouses need legal counsel, they therefore usually refer them to a lawyer.

Notaries are also sometimes not particularly interested in prenuptial agreements — at least when they are expected to assist during the drafting phase. Why is that? Because of the fee schedule. Notaries can only charge the statutory rate for notarization, regardless of the time involved.

Of course, there are also notaries who take their role in prenuptial agreements particularly seriously. It is simply human nature to want to use one's time as profitably as possible.

Prenuptial Agreement Advice from a Lawyer

Lawyers, of course, also provide advice on prenuptial agreements. As mentioned, the notary often refers the spouses to lawyers so that each partner receives impartial advice.

Lawyers provide recommendations on which interests should be protected from the client's perspective in the event of separation or divorce.

Many family law attorneys take a more collaborative approach because they understand that marriage and family matters are not solely about money. They also involve conflict resolution, the best interests of the child, and preserving family unity.

Alternative Approaches

Many couples want to work on their prenuptial agreement together in a cooperative atmosphere. One option is contract mediation, in which a mediator-lawyer contributes their wealth of experience (so-called advisory mediation).

Another option: one lawyer advises one spouse but listens to the other and also answers their questions — so-called mediation-style counseling. In our experience, this approach works very well in the vast majority of cases.

The Typical Process

  1. The spouses seek legal counsel. The lawyer drafts a proposal and sends it to the other spouse's lawyer.
  2. If the other spouse is not represented by a lawyer, a notary appointment can be arranged immediately.
  3. The notary may conduct a preliminary meeting — often when not both spouses are represented by a lawyer.
  4. The prenuptial agreement is notarized. The notary ensures that both partners understand the terms.
What Lawyers & Notaries Look For

Precisely because a prenuptial agreement is a special document and marriage is protected by the Constitution, courts scrutinize these agreements closely. Is the prenuptial agreement highly one-sided? Was a weaker negotiating position exploited?

The mere fact that it is notarized merely satisfies the formal requirements. However, what is written in it is also crucial.

Why Drafting Your Own Documents Offers No Advantage

Every lawyer and notary is pleased when spouses are familiar with the key terms and have a general understanding of what they mean: the matrimonial property regime, spousal support, and pension rights equalization.

However, drafts prepared by spouses based on documents found online are usually unhelpful. In fact, the actual draft usually doesn't even factor into the cost of the prenuptial agreement.

It's much more about what actually needs to be addressed. Figuring that out, advising on it, and finally drafting the agreement accordingly — that is the focus of our prenuptial agreement consultation.

We guide you personally through this process: transparently, at the statutory minimum rate, with no hidden costs.